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Archive for the ‘Gardening’ Category

“Twas in the Merry Month of May”…

Thursday, May 5th, 2005

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English ‘Roseum’ rhododendron

We’ve had an incredibly early season here (though I’ve been saying that each year for the past few years–but again this season seems especially early).  My roses are in full-bore bloom.  My asparagus began a week ago or more.  Dahlias are just peeking their little shoots out of the ground.  My tulips have already come and gone (though thankfully these pictures retain their beauty).  My English ‘Roseum’ rhododendron has also finished blooming (again memorialized here).  What’s nice about the Madrona tree (hence the name of the Seattle neighborhood where I live) photo is that it’s in flower as well.

With three children under the age of four the garden becomes a luxury I can hardly afford.  One has to make compromises like realizing you can’t weed and maintain it all by yourself any longer.  But the garden still pulls you back to beauty in the midst of the poop and swill.  Not that my children aren’t beautiful, mind you.  There’s just something so meditative and almost spiritual about the beauty that is a garden.

   

   

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Times When the World (and Families) Go to Hell

Monday, April 18th, 2005

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English ‘Roseum’ rhododendron

These are times when it seems the world’s gone to Hell.  Let’s leave aside the greater world which always has more than its share of misery to go around.  Let’s stick to my own family.

A few weeks ago the five of us (a four year old and 4 month old twins)  returned from a visit to Grandma in Florida.  Of course, it was wonderful seeing Grandma and for the babes and boy to bond with her.  But the sheer exhaustion of 2 full days traveling there and back damn near kilt mom and dad.  Jonah had a cold in Florida and after we returned I got one, then Miriam got it, then Mom got a stomach bug which Dad got and so on.

In addition, Mom ended her maternity leave a week ago and returned to work full time.  Of course, it was hardest on her as she dearly wanted to be near her babies.  But it was also hard on the twins who were used to having her at their beck and call.  And it was hard on Daddy who, while having two part time nannies helping, had to do a lot more baby childcare.  One day last week I didn’t know if I was going to lose my mind or jump off the deep end.  Coming from an abusive home as a child, when I hear babies screaming it just tears me up inside.  I literally can’t cope.  Sometimes in these situations it requires all my will to stay calm and focused.  Don’t worry (in case you are), I’m not about to do myself or anyone else harm.  It’s just damn hard to cope with that’s all.


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Adin in Exer-Saucer

All this illness, stress and domestic turmoil causes marital stress as well.  It’s not the best time.  But we have to remember that these times are momentary and that our children are wonderful, healthy and delightful 90% of the time.  They’re entitled to a few days of breakdown once in a while (but do they HAVE TO!?).

All this is by way of introduction of my main point.  I was in the living room standing amidst train tracks, puzzle pieces, marbles, and a gyminy under which one twin played thinking about how life and my living room floor both looked like rubble–when all of a sudden I noticed that my English ‘Roseum’ rhododendron was in full and glorious spring bloom.  It’s delicate, profuse purple flowers matted the shrub as if they were threaded through a damsel’s flowing tresses.  Then it came to me, as in a glimmer of sunshine: life is full of revelations.  What does that inane aphorism say?  "Don’t sweat the small stuff."  Keep your eyes on the prize.  Amen to that, brother.

Seattle Spring Has Sprung (2005)

Thursday, February 17th, 2005

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Cascade view from Pike & 37th Ave

Spring has sprung in Seattle though its only the middle of February. In fact, spring really began a few weeks ago and I just got around to putting this post together now. A few weeks ago I was walking the dog and I smelled an extraordinarily wonderful scent which I immediately knew was Daphne Odora. For me, this shrub is a harbinger of spring. There are lots of other plants that might rightly claim that title, but Daphne Odora is the sweetest smelling and therefore most wonderful. It’s like perfume!

Then I started noticing the cherry trees in bloom, the roses beginning to put forth their new green shoots, the tulips poking their shoots ever so slightly out of the ground. I’m not the kind of gardener who writes down what they see in their garden and when they see it. So I don’t know if my sense that spring is way early this year is anecdotal or based on hard evidence. But we’ve had a relatively mild winter with lots of sun and warm temperatures (it seemed like almost the entire month of January was in the 60s–unheard of for a Seattle winter) and spring is coming on like gangbusters! In fact, one of the highlights of our days is taking our newborn twins out in their Baby Bjorns for long walks down to Lake Washington where we bask in the sunshine and brisk lakeside breeze.

So I’m sorry to those of you back East or in the Midwest who had the winter from hell. We’re doing pretty well for ourselves this winter.

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Garden in Winter

Friday, January 28th, 2005

Andrew Wyeth, Winter Farm Scene

A few years ago, I read a wonderful column by the New York Times garden critic, Ann Raver. I think she has a wonderful eye for the poetry of landscape and I’ve found many of her stories quite memorable. I think the subject of this article was two winter gardens she’d visited in the Northeast. She trotted out this revelatory quotation from Andrew Wyeth which I’d never heard till that moment:

I prefer winter and fall, when you feel the bone structure in the landscape – the loneliness of it – the dead feeling of winter. Something waits beneath it – the whole story doesn’t show.
–Andrew Wyeth (1917-1977 ), quoted by Richard Meryman in The Art of Andrew Wyeth, 1973

Andrew Wyeth, Brandywine Valley, 1940

I remember how Raver went on to describe the branches as the bare bones and the trees as skeletons on the land. I couldn’t help but think of the mottled white and black bark of birch trees standing sentinels in heavy snow. But then the passage also alludes to the mysterious power of rejuvenation that lurks somewhere deep in the heart of the barren landscape. All this conjured a beautiful and evocative image.

Since my friends on the east coast are facing some savage winter weather, I began thinking of this quotation and thanks to the wonder of Google I found it in 12 seconds when I thought I never would at all. So those of you experiencing the “dead feeling of winter” just remember that “something waits beneath” to be born when Spring comes.

In a Seattle Summer Garden

Tuesday, July 20th, 2004

honorine_de_brabant_tpFor the past fifteen years, I have been an avid gardener wherever I’ve lived. When we bought our present home in 1998 in Seattle’s Madrona neighborhood, one of the things I was looking for was a yard I could garden in. We found it in spades. I have a perennial garden in the front, berries growing in the side yard and vegetables and more perennials growing in back. I’ve devoted enormous amounts of time to tending garden.

But with my son now in his third year and me providing him half time childcare; and my blog taking up almost all the rest of my free time, my garden has fallen into some disrepair. Weeds are overtaking some of my favorite plantings. I try to keep up, but I just don’t give it enough time or effort to make a serious dent in the ravenous weeds. I feel guilty. The garden still looks good as these recent pictures will attest. But I know in my heart (and my beloved plants know in their hearts) that I’m not doing right by them.

I’ve thought of hiring a part time gardener to come once a week to keep the weeds under control. But the idea of giving over my baby to a stranger is too difficult to accept at this time (though I might change my mind come November when the twins arrive!).

Ah well, I guess there’s nothing to do for it but enjoy the garden as it is.

To see garden pictures from this and past seasons, please visit my photo gallery, From the Garden.

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Seattle’s Early Summer 2004

Friday, May 14th, 2004

We have had a relatively mild winter (only one cold spell during which the temperatures went down to 20 F which in turned killed many of my succulents on my back deck) which has morphed into an incredibly fine, and mild spring. We even had 80 degree days in March (unheard of for NW springs). There’s been some, but comparatively little rain and LOTS of sunshine (unusual for NW springs). As a result, everything’s coming on gangbusters. I’ve had asparagus for 3 weeks. My roses bloomed about the same time. My irises began blooming about 10 days ago. All of this is unseasonably early, but of course wonderful nonetheless.

All of this coming on top of 2003′s hottest summer in 109 years of weather recording makes one wonder whether global warming is evident here in the Pacific NW.

In my latest batch of photos, here are a few which indicate how beautiful our early summer is here in Seattle:

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For more similar images, visit my photoblog: Into the Great Wide Open.

Heronswood Nursery: Spring Catalogue

Tuesday, March 9th, 2004
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Mahonia gracilipes

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Dan Hinkley is one of the great NW nurserymen. He started Heronswood, located in Kingston, WA, nearly 20 years ago and has made it into one of the great nurseries in the U.S., if not the world. His plant and seed collecting trips throughout the remotest parts of the world are legend. Heronswood became so successful that Burpee, one of Martha Stewart’s companies bought it and wisely left him in place to continue working his magic.

Dan, as is true of many self-taught professionals, is a stickler and perfectionist. Don’t expect much help when you visit the nursery from plant labels. You’ll only find Latin names (if that). If you don’t know them, you basically have to shop by look. What pleases your eye is what you buy. Before this year, Dan’s catalogues were voluminous compendiums of prose descriptions of the 2,000 plants inside. But this year Dan entered the modern visual age with a color supplement featuring photos of some of the stupendous plants Heronswood offers.

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Dan Hinkley leading a Heronswood nursery tour (credit: Jacqueline Koch/Seattle Times)

Dan is such a brillant plantsman that I would run to read anything he writes. Though if truth be told, as with many self-taught writers, his style can be a bit belabored and and high-flown. But these are minor peccadillos compared to the gifts he bears us. Dan published True Confessions: Ruminations of a World-Wise Plantsman in the Pacific Northwest Magazine, January 11, 2004 issue. It is a tender, yet sad litany of the endless litany of regrets that we gardeners have about plants lost, plants wasted, plants not bought or not planted. Gardeners, like all collectors, not only take joy in their collection, but they feel deep regret for the ones that got away. Here is Dan’s take on creating a new garden. He describes a phenomenon that I learned about the hard way when I first planted my garden here in my Seattle home. I put in almost every plant I wanted to grow and it looked great for a year. But I completely ignored their growth habits so that after two years, half the plants in my garden were crowding out the other half. I had to do a major reworking to reduce the number of plants so that the ones remaining could grow big and happy.

AND FINALLY, I REGRET that for as many years as I have been making gardens, I remain incapable of spacing my prepubescent plants in the garden with their ultimate size at maturity in mind. These are big regrets and add many lumps to my pockets. It is not as if I forget to have a conversation with myself as I’m placing the pots before digging the holes. We generally have a pretty good row with one another. I lose.

So why is it that we wish away the youngness of our gardens? In a wink, the seedlings we coddle are already trees, and the perennials fill the void and puerile vines mature and secure the arbor. There is no revisiting the childlike garden, short of moving and starting it once again — itself unthinkable as we, too, are no longer youthful but bloated with years and many regrets.

Yet it is exactly this that I will do, once again, as I strive to make another garden and make it the most beautiful garden in the world. I will again scribble my passion upon a canvas of open ground and stand with a dazed expression on my face, a gallon pot under my arm, burdened with indecision.

As I do, I will reflect on those nascent days of my first garden and the guilt that would blossom in me for having done just that, retreating indoors at dark, mentally exhausted and feeling as if I had accomplished nothing at all.

In retrospect, those were my most productive moments. My garden was, in fact, planted through the moments I’d believed I had lost.

So I will not regret these moments again, ever, as I attempt, in my mind, to create the most precise of color combinations, with plants too tender, too aggressive, planted too close together from friends too generous while listening to the Mariners play on my headset.

And with each pot I place in the earth, I will extract a few regrets from my pockets stuffed here and there and gently scatter them in the bottom of each hole for future harvest.

That is some fine writing. And here are a few lovely images (mostly) from the Heronswood.com website:

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Paeonia delavayi var. ludlowii

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Oriental poppy ‘Patty’s Plum’

Heronswood Nursery
7530 NE 288th Street
Kingston, WA 98346
360 297 4172
e-mail Heronswood

Kubota Gardens: Seattle Japanese Garden

Sunday, February 29th, 2004

My family loves Kubota Garden, one of the earliest Japanese gardens in Seattle. It’s located in the Rainier Beach neighborhood on the south shore of Lake Washington. Fujitaro Kubota bought the land on which the garden exists in 1927. Then he built a family home and created a nursery business and eventually a garden. Now it is a Seattle city park and beautiful Japanese garden. In my opinion it is one of the more beautiful and least-known local park.

Last weekend, the sun shone full and gorgeous and we decided to pack Jonah in the car and make a visit. The garden is set on 20 acres, though it feels quite compact. The major features are a small manmade “mountain,” a natural stream and waterfalls, a set of “necklace” ponds replete with ducks and Japanese painted bridges, a lawn and stately old evergreens and other tree varieties. The mountain was created in the 1960s by hauling in thousands of tons of rocks and building a promontory several hundred feet high giving a visitor splendid views of the lawn, trees and ponds below.

For an excellent summary of Kubota Garden and its history see Historylink.org.